So NOW I’m known as the “Don’t believe in marriage” guy.
I don’t think that’s fair…I believe marriage exists 🙂
I just don’t know what the reason to get married is!
I say “Why get married” People say “Why not” I say because you didn’t start out married…chill out.
Least some people are honest with me and say it’s because of the ceremony…ring…their day…special day…all attention on them.
Of course others say it’s not about a ceremony and they don’t need all of that but they just want to get married.
…cuz? Then…you’re committed? Cuz you signed the paper?
So seriously.
You see your marriage license what? One time..Two times then it’s tucked away…besides the ring what proof do you have that you’re married?
…what does it matter and to whom?
You have two rings…you had a witness…now what’s your relationship like?
I maintain that it doesnt matter ring or not…”committment before God” or not…you are with who you are with
If you are dating an asshole…you’re dating an asshole
If you marry one…you’re married to one
If you Have a good person…you have a good person
Nothing is going to change the relationship
Never mind…
The point is…what could make ‘e’ get married/wanna get married?
Well…the near perfect woman (for me).
…I qualify that because the ;near perfect’ woman for me, may be nowhere NEAR whats perfect for someone else…I dont ask for that much
example…a ‘near perfect’ day for me would be: Breakfast, Shopping, a Movie, Football, Pizza, Sex, Ice cream, Sex lol
I say ‘near perfect’… It cannot be the Perfect woman because the PERFECT woman wouldn’t want to get married 🙂
So everything in the dime lines, the woman described in “She!” and the list of the I love women posts and a couple of other posts….HER.
IF she really needs to get married…and she catches me on the right day…and if I got ring money; then HER I’ll marry her.
But all these women in between…no marriage, I aint settling for less than that…I can be TOTALLY happy in life with FAR FAR FAR less than “HER”…just wont marry far far less than her
Meaning, FAR less than “HER”? I can be with her for 10 years monogamous…but I wouldnt marry her
So, eclectik is NOT anti Marriage
(though I don’t understand why people want to get married, and those that do get married…whateverz)
but I’m, not getting married to anyone less than HER
So kiss it.
…and the bride.
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