People love them some children…and I don’t blame them; they are cool…little ass people don’t know anything
You can watch them learn…grow become adults
See them live through things that you did…show them (least try to) the right way of doing things…let them make their own mistakes
Even correct some mistakes you may have made
That all kicks ass
but what no one will ever say out loud (cept me) is…
Children are overrated.
While the above is all true about how cool kids are etc. etc. They are also a hassle…with little to no reward.
Most people that have had children at a young age prolly wish they didn’t
NEVER saying that they wish their child wasn’t there or born…NO they are a precious gift
BUT had they had their druthers…maybe they wouldn’t have had sex with that person…maybe they would’ve used extra protection
…maybe they woulda been somewhere else that day.
Love them to pieces…but had they never been born…hey; maybe not such a bad thing.
- Having to deal with the other half
- The Financials
- Being unselfish
- Time commitment
- The lifestyle changes
- The EXTRA responsibility
Being responsible…solely responsible for another whole ass life? whoa.
Not saying never…but maybe just no child then at the time…but when is there ever a good/right time?
Shiddd I guess when you can afford it and you meet someone you’re pretty sure you’ll stay with so they can help and not be an asshole.
However I WILL say on one hand…I always thought that people that had children at a younger age was cooler/smarter/more gooder than those that wait
Cuz:
- You get it out the way
- Grand mommy and Granddad are there to help
- You kinda grow up with the child
Cept that…
- Most aren’t ready
- Your evolution as an adult is stifled
- School and goals are put on hold or not realized at all
- You may become bitter of the things you missed out on
Well unless your child is THIS cool lol
I dunno it’s a give and take.
Would my life be incomplete if I never had a child or got married? HELL no
People say “Don’t you want to have your legacy live on? The eclectik name?”
I say … nope. I’m gone! Who cares about my name? I don’t, who is it helping?
And what if my child grows up to be an asshole? A murderer! Worse … A Steelers fan!!!?!???
Ugh!
I have other things and goals and stuff and stuff I can do …my happiness is not tied to those two things soley
And why do people at work announce when they have a child? Who cares?
And Why is length the standard measure at birth? Who cares how long your sharp head baby was?
And stop posting all these pictures of your kids, maybe they don’t want their face all over the place, share them with your friends and fam privately
… they really dont want to tell you “okay, we got it, you have a child” lol
And stop dressing your child up ironically or for fun, they dont want to look like that lol
That’s what people have children for
- They don’t do it to keep life going
- They don’t believe the children are the future lol
- They do it to play human dress up! These kids are living toys
- Dress up, take pictures, show off, make them do things you dont want to do, yell at them lol
- They are Life-Model Decoys! lol
Man F yo kids!
Okay, lemme be nice
Your kids aren’t overrated lol
We have to have kids around … we have to teach them though, raise them right
Gotta sustain the future and stuff I’m just having fun typing … but there’s a little truth in everything I type lol
