She!

January 18, 2008

Looks attract….personality keeps….actions maintain

She likes football:
A woman that enjoys sports is sexy. ESPECIALLY Football; if you actually liked football and came over to your mans spot with a something to drink, in some sweats or a jersey of your favorite team, made some wings before kick off, it would go an incredibly long way.
This works for the NBA playoffs as well but a competitive woman that likes to play games, be it Bowling, shooting pool, Scrabble, Monopoly thumb wrestling lol; wow.
(Trash talk is sexy too)

She Cooks:
Not only that, she goes to the grocery store picks up the necessities and comes over and whips up something lovely (yes comes over to HIS place). There’s no need for her to be an award winning chef (especially not for me Im a picky eater anyway) but filling the apartment with the smell of a home cooked meal (Jerk Chicken, Green Beans, Rice would work) is an unbelievable feat and very sweet. Packing the leftovers in the Tupperware and leaving the kitchen nice and new is going above and beyond and what man wouldn’t appreciate above and beyond?

She’s cool as hell:
* Showing up with a couple of DVDs and a Pizza on a Saturday night.
* Making bets on who will win next top model. lol
* People watching at the mall.
* Debating whether or not He-Man could beat Lion-O in a fight. LOL

…Just being silly and having fun. Those types of qualities are hard to find in a woman things like that keeps things fresh and fun, why would a man stray?

She did what?
The element of surprise; some men (esp. me) are hard to surprise BUT the efforts and the imagination are always well rewarded. Be it coming over to chill and excusing yourself to the bathroom and coming out in lingerie, something sexy, or nothing at all; for some quick seduction, OR sending a sexy picture mail on the cell phone
(breasts, a thigh or something neck down of course **have to protect the identity** lol)
but sending that while hes at work well definitely keep you on his mind throughout the day.

She makes you think:
Sending the afore-mentioned sexy picture on the cell phone will keep you on his mind; of course there are other ways:

A stuffed animal or buying him a shirt that just happens to smell like you
Maybe making a CD of songs that you played while giving him a massage or just chillin around the house; next time he plays that CD or hear those songs he’d think about you
Buying him cologne, when he sprays it on, hell think about you if another woman gives him a compliment on it; hell think about you first before paying attention to the chick that’s trying to push up on him lol

Of course the response is Well what do you do? Well this isn’t about that so beat it. lol

But I’m about stuff…see:

Heizeye&eyeamhim I

Heizeye&eyeamhim II

Heizeye&eyeamhim III

Hell, I’m not even asking for all that (kinda)…it’s just on my mind and I thought it would be nice to share 🙂

(however any woman that may agree or embodies any of the above, me email and IM info IS at the top son!)

  • http://confessions-of-an-everyday-woman.blogspot.com/ Ms. Confessions

    That’s ME!!!
    LOL

  • http://missysmentalmusings.blogspot.com MIssy

    I can’t cook but I can do everything else…..I love to watch FOOTBALL i learned along time ago if u can’t BEAT em , join EM GO Patriots!!!!!!!

  • tenacious

    that’s simple…you’re not asking for much….now the sports things….ehhh I’ll drop the wings off and go in another room and watch TV, I’m sorry I just can’t get into the sports things without falling asleep.

    But I def. can do the sweats/jersey thing even if I dont know the person who’s # I’m wearing. i heart sweats

    I think men should do the same…send me a lil sexy pictures or something, give ME something to think about all day at work….

  • http://thek-spot.blogspot.com/ Keli

    I love football…I can’t help it, I’m a TX girl…you’ve seen Friday Night lights…we love our pigskin on all levels. And I love a man the loves a woman that can appreciate the game.

    I also love to cook… my favorites are Tex-Mex and Italian. I make a mean Lasagna, and the best Enchiladas.

  • nitabita

    There are those of us out there who embody those qualities…mature, focused, know what we want, serious about life w/o taking life too seriously, spontaneous & fun.

    You want a woman who can cook? Maybe you need to move down south so we can hook u up with a pot of greens!

    Oh, and for the record, He-Man can’t mess with Lion-O.

  • http://boundbymyhook.blogspot.com Erica B.

    Great post! For all of you ladies that don’t get football, if your man digs it, it would be in YOUR best interest to buy Holly Robinson Peete’s book – “Get you own damn beer, I’m wathin’ the game!” It’ll teach you everything you need to know about football in a language you’ll understand.

  • Unity

    I know all your other women think this is about them. But we all know your talking about me 🙂

  • http://singlemomandmoney.blogspot.com Single Ma

    Damn! Is that why I’m still single? LOL

  • http://my-fresh-start.blogspot.com Lisa

    Ummm where’s the link at? You know your talking about me lol (jk)
    I enjoyed you post

  • http://areyoutheregod.blog.com/ Dawn

    But what about “He!”? What does he bring to the table? 😉

    Happy that you’re digging the sistas though!

  • http://roycesdaughter.blogspot.com Royce’s Daughter

    football (check…Eagles all day!!!)

    cooking (double check…without question *wink*)

    cool as hell (hell yeah!)

    surprise (ummmmm yes sir…that’s me!!! but of course one can’t give all her secrets away too soon!!)

    something to think about (John Varatos is my favorite scent for this year…you’ll get lots of compliments…truss me *wink*)

    Not too much to ask…but my question is this…Men seem to claim to want all these things and more, but when they find her they still ain’t sure. It sounds real good, hell sounds real nice but when you find her will you treat her right?

  • Heather

    I can make a mean butter chicken! What y’all know about that?

  • http://www.myspace.com/lovinmy88keys Stephanie

    Haha. You are too much, Dre.

    Can’t wait for football season to start. Did you see that pitiful Cowboys/Saints game the other day? My, my… I hate those Cowboys… so even the preseason win pisses me off…

    Anyway, I think I’ve read this particular blog before. But it’s just as entertaining as before.

  • http://www.justmikie.com MKPrice

    hmmm. I won’t claim all that is me. but most of it…yes.
    mostly just the football part.
    cooking….meh. we won’t go there. how about we order out? lol

  • http://deborahsthoughtsmadevisible.blogspot.com Deborah

    …This is more or less what me and my friends do when we get together-I’m not even joking, which makes this kinda weird. It may not always include sports watching (it’s usually a funny/dumb movie) but we more or less sit back, drink a few beers, watch TV, pig out on whatever’s available and joke around and make asses out of ourselves. (My friend tried to breakdance once and ACTUALLY broke a bone-funniest fucking thing EVER!)

  • http://tclarkegolden.blogspot.com/ TC

    I mean I can dig it…I love Football…getting better at the cooking…I am sentamental…for the most part cool as hell unless you piss me off…I don’t think you are asking for too much…only thing I would add is that she is spritual…I am not necessarily religious as in I am a die hard Baptist or anything like that…but she HAS to have Christ and Jehovah GOD in her life…that really makes the difference…that’s just my take on it though

  • SHUNDIE

    But then you would cheat…. because you are a man.. and thats what they do…MESS UP SOMETHING GOOD. but im not saying thats all men..im just taking about “99.8% “

  • SHUNDIE

    WOULD HAVE CHEATED*

  • harriet

    it’s me…but i’m taken. sorry! LOL

  • Iknowyougotsoul

    If I could meet a woman like that I’d be happy.

  • http://www.readingwritingblogging.blogspot.com Miz

    Nice list…like the way you actually envisioned those things like little fantasies…

  • Shelley

    Okay, I don’t like football, but that’s mostly because I don’t understand it. If I had a guy who would want to break it down for me, I wouldn’t mind watching with him occasionally. As long as he’d watch some Lifetime movies with me, lol. But I do love basketball, though.

    I currently don’t cook, but that’s because I don’t have anyone to cook for. Again,if I had a guy who’d want to eat my cooking (since I’m not sure how good it would be), I’d cook, as long as he did the dishes afterwards cuz I really hate washing dishes.

    I’m cool! DVDs and pizza sound like the perfect night to me. I could talk about Top Model all day and I stay up in the mall. However, I don’t know what a Lion-O is? I know about He-man, never heard of Lion-O.

  • http://newnegrogroove.blogspot.com mp1

    let me know when you find her!

  • http://www.thegoddess.blog-city.com The Goddess

    Looks like you’re talking about me again. Lol

  • http://www.renaissanceblackwoman.blogspot.com Eb

    Until why would a man stray is all me… so E tell me why I am single?

    Not too big on the sending seductive pics via camera phone… when I blow up dont want any skeletons comin out the closet.

    never really thought a man would appreciate a stuffed animal, and not really into making Cd’s but I have sent dudes a particular mp3 via email… that made me think of them or something that happened between us.

    I have bought cologne before

  • http://www.datinglane.blogspot.com C’est Chic

    This is ME! No seriously…it really is…but why hasnt anyone snatched me up yet?
    LOVE ur poetry…very very much.

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