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February 7, 2008

In the Question and answer Blog I was asked “Why do I have a Fascination with skinny women?”

I dont think I have a fascination with skinny women…do I?
I dunno…I guess I’m just attracted to certain aspects of a woman and those things just happen to come with a smaller frame lol

Hmmm lemme see if I can put me on a couch and break me down…

I DO think that a smaller framed woman has better options in clothing and can be more versatile with fashion…things look and hang/fall better on a smaller frame
(I loves me some woman wearin some hotness)

If I’m givin oral treats I like to look up and see face 🙂
And it would be a hard time on the neck and breathing to have the bigger framed woman sit on-face lol

I’m one of those weird guys that are turned on by muscle tone on women…I’m attracted to toned arms…visable cavle muscle…nice backs (I know weird)
Those things are more apparent and looks more gooder to mme on smaller women.

Growing up all my crushes were a certain size…I guess that has something to do with it.

eclectik’s all Time Crushes (From when I was a lower case ‘e’)

1. Robin Givens

The Number one….mmmmmm Robin Givens; ever since Head of the class I’ve been wanting me some her
And OH!!!! Boomerang! (Another reason why it’s one of my fav movies) The Trenchcoat scene Makes me Stronger!

2. Lark Voorhees

Lisa Turtle could ALWAYS get it…the ONLY reason I watched saved by the bell (What’s with me and black women in school?) <–See I value intellegence 🙂
She's near flawless…I was the only one that wanted her to stay on Martin lol

3. Dominique Dawes

Look at those legs…nuff said.

4. Janet Jackson

From Good Times to Diffe’rent Strokes to Fame…to Control…And THAT STOMACH!

5. Kenya Moore

Mrs Bozack! Ever since that Mrs. America Pagent…I was all in…I watched Trois 5 Times (sad)
Her Skin, Stomach, Legs, and That Backside…she’s the ONLY woman I can think of that could Truly rival Halle as GOAT

6. Rosie Perez

Tina! The ice cubes…Boy Spike hooked it up
Dancer…the scene in White man cant jump (Oh you know what scene)…all that PLUS I LOVE the voice and accent such a turn on.

7. Gail Deevers

People always teased me for this one…sayin she was NOT the prettiest in the face…but THOSE damn Thighs and her stomach…complexion; I woulda got married

8. Baby D from JJ Fad

Dania Birks! (Hey…I can know her real name)
Her beat box is fresh and it will blow my mind!
I wanted to have sooo much sex with her; she was a prettier version of Brenda from 227 LMAO!
Wanted her to go solo 🙂

9. Karyn White

Super Woman!
I was SO in love with her skin and voice when she came out…thought that she was the finest singer doin it.

10. Sabrina García (Lucia from Breakin 2 ‘Turbo’s Girl’)
Alls I know is when I saw that movie I was like Whooooooo is that?!

Alllllllllllll of that said.

I’ve seen more than my fair share of thicky McThickertons that can SO get it… so I dont REALLY Discriminate
…plus I find that the bigger womens have the better ‘olas 🙂

It’s really all in porportions….
Height to Weight
Wasit to Ass
Breasts to Stomach

For no reason should your stomach come out past your breasts…unless your breasts are inverted and concave

I dunno Killah…maybe I do have a facination…I defintely have a lust.

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Keli

And it would be a hard time on the neck and breathing to have the bigger framed woman sit on-face lol
-I had to laugh at that one myself…o-k…

But skinny does not always equate tone, or muscle definition…I know skinny women with jelly. So you actually prefer fit or toned women more so than skinny? Would that be a fair assumption?

And Lark Voorhees, although not the most fit, has a very pretty face.
So I take it your crush on JJ remained when she picked up weight.
plus I find that the bigger women’s have the better ‘olas
-see, all things go back to the ‘olas with you…

Hey, I guess it’s no different than my attraction to TO’s physique…LUST indeed.
heavenleigh

so e…what if you met your perfect ‘mental’ woman, but she didn’t quite live up to what you assume is your perfect ‘physical’ woman? would you suggest she went on a diet, or simply pass on the whole thing?
http://idontknowitsjustmia.blogspot.com Mia

If I’m givin oral treats I like to look up and see face
And it would be a hard time on the neck and breathing to have the bigger framed woman sit on-face lol – YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOO STUPID FOR THAT!!! LMAO!!!!

Wait…

Why do you know Baby D’s real name??? ONLY YOU!!!!

LMAO!!
http://eclectik-relaxation.com/ eclectik

It would be JUST my luck…the only man to catch Whiplash givin head LMAO

If I met my perfect mental woman? I dunno…I think Sex appeal…fashion sense…sense of humor…conversation…work ethic…intelligence DOES offset and overcompensate for SOME physical things…. Extra flab though? not that much

HEY I can know her full name…yeaaaahhhhh that’s it! That’s it!
harriet

although IMO your viewpoint of what you physically like in a woman is a tad shallow, the fact that you give mad brownie points for personality is a plus.

i also think–in the extremely unlikely event–that if you get married and have kids, the fact that a woman would be willing to bleed for you to bring your child into the world would warrant so much respect that her physique would barely matter.

BUT, if your plan is to remain single all your life and stay on the dating scene, then if you like it, i love it. whatever floats your boat, e.

JMHO
http://eclectik-relaxation.com/ eclectik

Well…
The Question was concerning the physical so its hard to answer it without coming off shallow…which feh I dont mind…Im a honest type guy; rather tell the truth and come off “wrong” than lie and fake it up.

I dont think this post has anything to do with a baby or mother of my child…just for fun

Yep LOVE me some personality…sense of humor and fashion sense…and laid backidness makes me smile

I’d be a lyin sack of goose pellets if I fronted like I thought if MoNique or India Arie had the greatest personalities I’d get with them…cuz I soooo wouldnt.
beautifulgyrlj

Mmm Mmm Mmm… SMH. I mean that’s like females frontin like they would talk to Big Rueben over someone like Common… Its not happening. Hmmm I really don’t have a certain body type but I don’t deal with obesity. That’s not sexy. I can deal with a lil belly and some love handles…LoL God made some people a certain way for a reason.
http://www.karrieb.blogspot.com Karrie B.

well i’m what my heavier friends call me “skinny bitch” and 1 of my homeboys says i’m “too jj fad” for his taste…so that makes me your dream girl? lol

-karrie b.
http://www.myspace.com/pghtodc B-Dub

^^heavenleigh….Personally, if I dont find my “perfect” mental match attractive, then chances are that we’d never even take it to the point of getting to know that she’s the perfect mental match…..Heck, I’ll take someone that I find attractive with a little bit of flaws over my unattractive “perfect” mental match anyday.

^^beautiful……You hit it right on the money. Why is it shallow when a guy says the physical things, but not when a female does it? e isnt attracted to big girls. I don’t see any of ya’ll women in a rush to date Webster or Gary Coleman. End of Story. We all have our likes and dislikes, so I guess we’re all shallow then.
http://memphizsoul.blogspot.com memphizsoul

Very interesting picks… Gail im surprised about I would think thats a bit too muscular but you like what you like. As far as skinny woman have you EVER dated anyone that was not skinny or been attracted to?…just curious.
http://eclectik-relaxation.com/ eclectik

I’ve dated non skinny women before…I’ve dated women that didnt have a “pretty face” before…I’m selectively shallow lol

No one is perfect or built perfect…I recognize that…I just love women

…and nips and olas 🙂
http://myfuturerocks.blogspot.com a.tiara

lol yea I’m not feeling this list e lol But you know you are entitled to your preferences. I tend to like darkskinned guys so thats something that might make me a little shallow(not saying you are lol)

“If I’m givin oral treats I like to look up and see face “
http://myfuturerocks.blogspot.com a.tiara

hey it didnt post my whole comment! lol It was supposed to read:

“If I’m giving oral treats I like to look up and see face lol” LMAO funniest line of the whole post lol
cuzkaysaidso

You like what you like. I can hardly get any kind of muscle definition so I guess that makes me a McThickerton but it’s all good. You made a good case and I ain’t mad at ya.
DollFace

Interesting group of women. I just knew after watching Project Runway on Wednesday that you would have a new crush.
http://dejanae411.blogspot.com dejanae411

hey we all have our prefernces
u do u
makes it easier if your tastes are a bit diffferent
you can get ur thin muscular chicks and ur boys can get the thicky thickertons if they so desire