My Kinda Girl

November 17, 2006

What I would look for in a woman…in order no less, of course no woman would need to possess ALL of these things, but I needed something to type about and im being honest; sue me! LOL

Mentally/Personality wise

1st Sense of humor

Why first? I dunno; I joke a lot…I like when a woman is humours…sarcastic…likes to play a round…silly, even goofy; it’s a turn on…sexy to me.

2nd Good conversation

It’s always nice to be able to talk to someone lol Idle chatter (while I loathe it at work *especially in and around my workspace*) is great…that’s where the sense of humor comes out…the compatibility. I’ve always been attracted to women that can hold a decent conversation more notably when it’s about next to nothing…just talking about Real World, or what’s the better flavor pop tart…why 90% of people in the DC metro are not from the DC metro…nothing special, just yappin’

There’s no strain to find something to talk about because it comes so natural so sometimes you can be around them and not have to speak…and it’s okay, you’re just good with them in the room….those types of relationships are the best!
3rd Aspirations/Goals/Work ethic

A Woman with focus is a beautiful creature…that’s trying to do something with her self…be it school, trying to get a head at work; upward mobility. Seeing a woman come home from work is sexy…even in school; watching a woman studying was always a turn on.
Nerds are HOT! 🙂

4th Laid Backedness (it’s a word!! lol)

2. Badu

4. Megan Good

5. Lauryn Hill

6. Eva Mendes

3rd Legs
I LOVE legs….I’M A LEG MAN! Defined legs are sexy…thighs…calves? Women you have no clue…Serena Williams’s legs? Love em…Mya’s? Adore them…slim legs like the girl Julisa on 106& Park? YUP! All thicknesses as long as they don’t look like baseball bats and aren’t scared up. I thanked God that 1thing by Amarie was on the Hitch DVD!!!!
Love Legs….thus my infatuation with tract stars, the WNBA, and Ciara:
4th Eyes

They don’t have to be a uncommon color, or a different shape….not always; sometimes a woman can smile at you with her eyes…sometimes it looks like they see right through you (Some see right through your bullshit lol) But I love women with pretty eyes…eye lashes…eye brows; so seductive. I sat across a woman at Chipotle not too long ago her eyes were so mesmerizing twice I missed when I grabbed my taco lol…damn she was gorgeous

Top 5 Favorite Celebrity eyes
1. Kristen Wilson (From Dr. Doolittle and Bulletproof)

2. Badu

3. Leila Arcieri

4. Vivian Green

5. Denise Vasi

5th Arms
Weird right? I don’t know when this started…I think after I saw Angela basset in the ‘What’s love got to do with it’…and again in ‘How Stella…’
OR the first time I saw Oprah’s under arm Waddle LMAO!
When a woman with toned arms is just out and out sexy…Ciara too; damn yep!
I suppose that’s why I adore women in tank tops and anything spaghetti strapped
So that’s it…of course I’m attracted to much more than that…and there are probably more important things…but in all honesty and in order that’s what I like , look for and why.
I know…no Ass or Breasts makes the list seem like bullshit LOL
BUT
If a woman had all of the 5 things listed above I could give a good damn if she’s flat as a board up top and had a Desperate Housewives booty…that’s real.
(For the record though 6th would be behind; 7th would be breasts…behind first so she’d have SOMETHING, I can deal with small breasts

…though I do adore full Cs)

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http://www.journey2joy.blogspot.com Darbs

Nice list…and it’s not that hard to find a woman who likes the same activities as you do…that’s a pretty substantial list…and is right on par with the types of things that you should be feelin’ at this phase in your life…wait…how old are you? LOL.
http://www.journey2joy.blogspot.com Darbs

Nice list…and it’s not that hard to find a woman who likes the same activities as you do…that’s a pretty substantial list…and is right on par with the types of things that you should be feelin’ at this phase in your life…wait…how old are you? LOL.
http://roycesdaughter.blogspot.com Royce’s Daughter

Toaster struddle (Rasberry) is way better then any pop tart.

Can you tell I refuse to work this last two hours. Monday’s I never do well on Mondays. But yeah…Toaster Struddle is way better dude and don’t you forget it LOL!!
http://thepoeticcocoon.blogspot.com Urban Butterfly

Interesting.

I know we all have our “ideal” woman or man that we want in our lives.

I think what’s most important is to look beyond the surface, dig deeper and see the person for who they are and not what they look like.

Things that look good are not always good for you.

And the beauty of a woman’s soul is eternal, whereas her physical beauty has the ability to fade with time.

Call me weird….

but I love those unexplainable attractions, where upon first glance, the guy/girl may not be your type(and you may not be his/hers), but there’s something below the surface drawing you two together like magnets.

Those are the moments that I crave…
http://thepoeticcocoon.blogspot.com Urban Butterfly

Interesting.

I know we all have our “ideal” woman or man that we want in our lives.

I think what’s most important is to look beyond the surface, dig deeper and see the person for who they are and not what they look like.

Things that look good are not always good for you.

And the beauty of a woman’s soul is eternal, whereas her physical beauty has the ability to fade with time.

Call me weird….

but I love those unexplainable attractions, where upon first glance, the guy/girl may not be your type(and you may not be his/hers), but there’s something below the surface drawing you two together like magnets.

Those are the moments that I crave…
http://thepoeticcocoon.blogspot.com Urban Butterfly

Interesting.

I know we all have our “ideal” woman or man that we want in our lives.

I think what’s most important is to look beyond the surface, dig deeper and see the person for who they are and not what they look like.

Things that look good are not always good for you.

And the beauty of a woman’s soul is eternal, whereas her physical beauty has the ability to fade with time.

Call me weird….

but I love those unexplainable attractions, where upon first glance, the guy/girl may not be your type(and you may not be his/hers), but there’s something below the surface drawing you two together like magnets.

Those are the moments that I crave…
http://thepoeticcocoon.blogspot.com Urban Butterfly

Interesting.

I know we all have our “ideal” woman or man that we want in our lives.

I think what’s most important is to look beyond the surface, dig deeper and see the person for who they are and not what they look like.

Things that look good are not always good for you.

And the beauty of a woman’s soul is eternal, whereas her physical beauty has the ability to fade with time.

Call me weird….

but I love those unexplainable attractions, where upon first glance, the guy/girl may not be your type(and you may not be his/hers), but there’s something below the surface drawing you two together like magnets.

Those are the moments that I crave…
http://sarccastikenterprises.com Sarccastik The Invincible

You got some stunna’s on your page shawty!!!
http://sarccastikenterprises.com Sarccastik The Invincible

You got some stunna’s on your page shawty!!!
1969

Interesting list. It sounds like you are looking for a woman of substance with nice eyes and arms..LOL

She’s out there!!!!!
1969

Interesting list. It sounds like you are looking for a woman of substance with nice eyes and arms..LOL

She’s out there!!!!!
1969

Interesting list. It sounds like you are looking for a woman of substance with nice eyes and arms..LOL

She’s out there!!!!!
tenacious

nice list

good luck finding all that in DC *lol*
tenacious

nice list

good luck finding all that in DC *lol*
tenacious

nice list

good luck finding all that in DC *lol*
http://jcdplace2be.blogspot.com/ Julia_Claudine_Deveraux

Great choice of ladies! Let us know when you find your total pakage.

First thing that will grab my attention: LIPS! Nice lips are IT for me.
http://jcdplace2be.blogspot.com/ Julia_Claudine_Deveraux

Great choice of ladies! Let us know when you find your total pakage.

First thing that will grab my attention: LIPS! Nice lips are IT for me.
http://lavendersquirts.blogspot.com DivineLavender

E,

I do have a list…but it seems like lately I have a really simple one.

1. Employed.

2. Valid Driver’s License

3. Teeth

4. SIGNED divorce papers

5. Cell phone and Land Line in HIS name

6. No Outstanding Warrants

7. No (ED) E.Dysfunction

8. Different address from the DOC (Department of Corrections) and His Momma, Sistah, Uncle, Grandma-ma, or Eldest Son

9. Eligible to vote and actually voted.

10. Home internet access (no library access or soley work hook-ups)

Low standards….its been a rough year in Illinois for the kid!

I will aspire to have a respectable list like you when I grow up! *wink, wink*
http://lavendersquirts.blogspot.com DivineLavender

E,

I do have a list…but it seems like lately I have a really simple one.

1. Employed.

2. Valid Driver’s License

3. Teeth

4. SIGNED divorce papers

5. Cell phone and Land Line in HIS name

6. No Outstanding Warrants

7. No (ED) E.Dysfunction

8. Different address from the DOC (Department of Corrections) and His Momma, Sistah, Uncle, Grandma-ma, or Eldest Son

9. Eligible to vote and actually voted.

10. Home internet access (no library access or soley work hook-ups)

Low standards….its been a rough year in Illinois for the kid!

I will aspire to have a respectable list like you when I grow up! *wink, wink*
http://abitofeverythingbymizjj.blogspot.com/ MizJJ

I gotta co-sign with urban butterfly. You might be passing up someone you might really connect with because they do not come in your pre-approved package.
http://abitofeverythingbymizjj.blogspot.com/ MizJJ

I gotta co-sign with urban butterfly. You might be passing up someone you might really connect with because they do not come in your pre-approved package.
http://abitofeverythingbymizjj.blogspot.com/ MizJJ

I gotta co-sign with urban butterfly. You might be passing up someone you might really connect with because they do not come in your pre-approved package.
a.i.n.t.

Urban Butterfly and MizJJ said it!! But I feel you on the flabby arms. When I see jiggle, that’s when I know it’s time to get back on the weights.
a.i.n.t.

Urban Butterfly and MizJJ said it!! But I feel you on the flabby arms. When I see jiggle, that’s when I know it’s time to get back on the weights.
http://eclectik-relaxation.com/ eclectik

Did we NOT read when I said I’m not looking for ALL of that in one woman?

I just typed what I liked…i can mix and match…like my black ass is some prize lol
http://eclectik-relaxation.com/ eclectik

Did we NOT read when I said I’m not looking for ALL of that in one woman?

I just typed what I liked…i can mix and match…like my black ass is some prize lol
http://lavendersquirts.blogspot.com DivineLavender

E, you are a prized (maybe at the bottom of the Cracker-Jack box but a prized, indeed!) I am kidding *sticking my tongue out at you!*

With Love,
DL
http://lavendersquirts.blogspot.com DivineLavender

E, you are a prized (maybe at the bottom of the Cracker-Jack box but a prized, indeed!) I am kidding *sticking my tongue out at you!*

With Love,
DL
http://roycesdaughter.blogspot.com Roycee

Yeah I thought we covered this before (I IM’d you LOL). Toaster Struddle is what’s hot in the hood in 2006. Pop Tarts are so last year LOL!!

As for your list I think it’s pretty reasonable considering you seem to be open to someone who doesn’t necessarily have all the characteristics you listed (cause that’s too close to dayum near perfect). Ciara does have great legs (*jealous*) too!!!
http://roycesdaughter.blogspot.com Roycee

Yeah I thought we covered this before (I IM’d you LOL). Toaster Struddle is what’s hot in the hood in 2006. Pop Tarts are so last year LOL!!

As for your list I think it’s pretty reasonable considering you seem to be open to someone who doesn’t necessarily have all the characteristics you listed (cause that’s too close to dayum near perfect). Ciara does have great legs (*jealous*) too!!!
http://sangindiva.blogspot.com Sangindiva

I am only commenting because
you always CLOWN the lurkers…

The reality is-I am nothing like your list. hahahaha!
http://sangindiva.blogspot.com Sangindiva

I am only commenting because
you always CLOWN the lurkers…

The reality is-I am nothing like your list. hahahaha!
http://sangindiva.blogspot.com Sangindiva

I am only commenting because
you always CLOWN the lurkers…

The reality is-I am nothing like your list. hahahaha!
http://tclarkegolden.blogspot.com/ TC

I think this is a cool list…we all have things that are “tun ons” or “turns our heads”….
how about number two right under a relationship with God (not just going to church…feel me?) is that he is clean…you would be surprised…

1st Sense of humor
2nd Good conversation
3rd Aspirations/Goals/Work ethic
4th Laid Backedness (it’s a word!! lol)

All of that…I can get wit…pretty much fits me…

But when you got to the physical…totally not me….LOL…
guess I don’t fit your list, just like you “say” you don’t fit mines….
http://tclarkegolden.blogspot.com/ TC

I think this is a cool list…we all have things that are “tun ons” or “turns our heads”….
how about number two right under a relationship with God (not just going to church…feel me?) is that he is clean…you would be surprised…

1st Sense of humor
2nd Good conversation
3rd Aspirations/Goals/Work ethic
4th Laid Backedness (it’s a word!! lol)

All of that…I can get wit…pretty much fits me…

But when you got to the physical…totally not me….LOL…
guess I don’t fit your list, just like you “say” you don’t fit mines….
beautifulgyrlJ

Ur top 5 isn’t that hard to find… But guaranteed she’s gonna be lacking something as simple as common sense. Or it may be one of the beautiful ones that have deep psychological issues. Why is it always like that? Hummmm….