More Random thoughts concerning being single, being in a relationship, and a bunch of other more mess … cuz Im single and I be knowin

Being Single >> An Awful relationship

The older you get and the more of your friends relationships you witness, the less appealing marriage is

Marriage is 80% Business, 10% Love, and 10% Convenience

Like is WAY more important and powerful than love

Sexual chemistry is not always linked to a person’s “Type”

There’s often a stark difference between what people say they are looking for and what they are attracted to
… and definitely what they end up with

It’s easy to say that you don’t view the next the same as your ex but a lot of people do … and it doesn’t help matters

When you are insecure about something, once you point it out everyone will notice … most of the time they never would have

Sometimes it isn’t love at first sight … you should look again a few times, you might miss out on someone because you didn’t see an initial attraction

The who calls who first, who makes the first move, who asks who out first ‘dance’ has led to a lot of people never going out

Gender based entitlement is the worst, you are not owed anything just because you are a certain gender

Not all men cheat … but a ton do … and so do women. Going into a relationship distrustful off top helps no one though

Chivalry is dead … and women killed it; not all but yep.

Men and women can be friends without smanging … its not as fun but it can happen

Sometimes it’s not that they are too good to be true, but at the present place you are they might be too good for you
… step your game up instead of running or pushing them away

Friends with benefits works if there are only two friends involved with said benefits

Single people do not have a fear of commitment, but no interest in a shit relationship
A Totally quiet person is not really desirable but it’s way better than a rah rah all the time person

You don’t have to know everything you want in a mate, but you should definitely know what you do not … work on that first

Once you figure out what you really don’t want for you, you’ll realize your dealbreakers were pretty overblown

If the interest is not there it should be communicated … early
… if things change it should also be communicated

Don’t let facebook and twitter influence your interest

#unpopularopinion Men and Women can smang and be friends, and do so until one or both find someone else AND remain friends … its possible; I’ve seen it … I’ve done it.

Contrary to popular belief a woman’s money spends the same way that a mans does

If you masturbate and then still want to call them …. its real

Sometimes it is just sex and mature people can handle that … def. not for everyone though

It’s hard to accept but sometimes it IS you .. not that its nothing you can do about it, you just have to be honest enough to realize it and adjust

That comfort zone is almost harder to get out of than the friend zone

It doesnt always have to “go somewhere” … but you cant wait around for someone else to start it B-E Aggressive

“If you play hard to get well then you won’t get got”