I’ve said:
Looks attract…Personality Keeps…Actions maintain.
And I tend to believe it.
People stop the madness.
Everyone is shallow, not to the sme extent (And some people shouldn’t/Cannot afford to be shallow) but…
It kills me when people try and front like Looks dont matter at all, and they are extra evolved and value all these other things in a person
Shut your filthy fat faces.
I love me some personality as much as (if not more than) the average/typical guy but the Bomb ass personality wrapped up in this:
Aint gettin it poppin off AT to the ALL.
NO one meets a personality.
The ONLY way you can be woo’d by a personality initially and want someone off top like that is if you’re dealing with some witty, sexy typin guy that takes pictures with extra shadows
**WAVING HELLO**
Like I said…I may value personality more than most…I adore a woman with a sense of humor, good conversation, wit, intelligence….work ethitic
And I think I have more personality wants than physical (though Im labeled as extra picky)
But seriously…no one wants an unattractive person.
Now…your idea of attractive may not be everyone elses idea of attractive…you like what you like
I’m saying…my personal hero is Forrest Whittaker cuz DAMN!
Gives a shadow lurker some hope.
Anyway…
Methinx that when you’re younger you have your list of wants with the physical and you go towards the sexiest of the bunch and get down with the get down
once you get older you learn to separate your needs from your wants and you find the balance between what they look like and how they make you feel and how much you actually like them…the personality
Still in all you have to find them attractive in some sort of way first.
Typically there’s a balance…
The more attractive people have the lesser in terms of personality and the less attractive are a delight to be with
But it’s all in perception…it’s what you like and don’t like THAT goes back into my theory that there’s NO such thing as a “Good man” or “Good woman”
It’s allll a matter of what you’re willing to put up with/what doesn’t piss you off.
Case in point…there could be a hot young sexy woman that all she likes to do is Watch TV, play board games, shoot pool, watch movies, eat drink and work
One guy might be like “she’s borning….doesnt ever want to go to the club or doesnt want to such and such…always at work….
Me? I’d Loooooove me some her.
A woman might think a “Good man” is extra attentive…likes to go out and dance…calls her and tells her he’s thinking about her…etc.
Another woman might see the same man and be like ewww he’s too clingy…always around…go do something.
But if he looks like this:
It dont matter WHAT he wanna do or how compatible you are.
That’s the good thing about the dating websites and the internet…you either can find a compatible person minus all the superfical stuff and/or you can meet that person in person and find out exactly how extra superfical you are
What do I know about anything…I just be typin.
