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June 23, 2007

You know how women get on men for:

Being obsessed with the smaller women (Skinny Bitches)
Not being attracted to “Bigger women”
Thinkin it’s not sexy when a woman gains significant weight
Likes how the women on videos and men magazines look

??????

When was the last time a woman drooled over some pot belly dude?

What male model doesn’t have a flat stomach or washboard Abs?

You’ll find Women in the Magazines and TV that’s MAD skinny…or REAL thick
…stretch marks…little belly…lotta ass, etc. etc.

What THICK male dude on TV or Magazines you see?

Where’s the Rubben Studdard/Jerome Bettis Swimsuit Layout? Puahahahahahaha

…It’s all stupid (Wanted to type “Bullshit” but I’m trying to stop it)

Why is it when women:

Try and lose weight
Color their hair and/or eyes
Get sugery to drop pounds or get breasts
Get a weave
Perm their hair
etc. etc.

It’s “Hollywood” or “Society” making them do it?

Why can’t they just want to look a certain way that makes them happy?

Why does a woman that decides NOT to get a relaxer look at a woman with long permed hair some kinda way?

Get outta here

It’s the same as wearing certain clothes, wearing makeup (ewww), or driving a certain vehicle

…you like what you like, and you go with what looks good for you…people get caught up in their own self worth and think other people should conform to what they believe in
Let your orginality be YOUR originality…

But How you gon be on the “Yeah I wear my hair ‘natural’ cuz fuck that…no chemicals for me…that’s not how out hair was meant to be

..then have your face plastered with makeup? Bwahahaha…lookin like Black kabuki

Men be on that bullshit too (See? damn)

Let it be 10 light skin women around…they like light skin women
Let it be 10 Thick women around…they only want women with meat on their bones

How is a man going to be upset if a woman:
Makes more than them
Drive a better car
Has a more advanced degree
Get outta here (I wanted to say Get the Fuck outta here *But I’m trying to quit*)

What low self esteem, fake pride, chauvenist ass dudes are out there? That’s crazy! crazy I say lol

You know there’s guys that would ask their woman to quit school and be with them? Or ask them to be stay at home types and let them earn

….NOT because he wants her to not have to work…dont flatter yourself, you’re not his “Queen”
He wants you to always be below him and depend on him to boost HIS stupid low expectaion havin ass up

Then you can’t leave him cuz you’ll have to start over

THAT’S why that Diary of a Mad black women was horrible
The beginning? Who does that to women? Who treats women like that? That’s crazy
And ole Girl who lets men treat them that way…and THEN Want to be with him still…Please.
I mean I guess it happens, but it’s disgusting to me…so I cant watch….or be a part of it.

 wait.

 What was this post about again?

….What are ANY of my posts about again? LMAO

  • http://thek-spot.blogspot.com/ Keli

    When was the last time a woman drooled over some pot belly dude?
    -Yeah, you got me there, but Jerome Bettis is kinda sexy. Lol…but I have a thing for back…you know quarterbacks, running backs, defensive backs…Oops.

    But How you gon be on the “Yeah I wear my hair ‘natural’ cuz fuck that…no chemicals for me…that’s not how out hair was meant to be
    -Um, should I take this statement personally? Hmmm…

  • serenity

    I know you are not going to believe this but, I LOVE FAT BOYS!

  • http://drawn2words.blogspot.com shai

    Of your top sexy women list, who is over a size 12? LOL. How many would you talk to if they wore their “real” hair?

  • pajnstl

    What was this post about again?

    ~ you and your wanderin mind…

    Let your orginality be YOUR originality

    ~ Everyone loves a Masterpiece!

  • Ms. Lee

    Where’s the Rubben Studdard/Jerome Bettis Swimsuit Layout? Puahahahahahaha
    Can’t you just see Ruben pinching his nipples and smiling that, ‘oh my God, they really like me’ smile, with his belly hanging over his speedo? LMAO.

    The things you come up with…

  • http://www.thegoddess.blog-city.com The Goddess

    I love me some Jerome Bettis, so quit playin! LOL I’ve always thought he was SO sexy and have always had a thing for bigger men. I think it’s because I’m so small (not weight wise anymore) and it’s a security thing. I don’t know.

  • http://www.MonicaMingo.com CreoleInDC

    Black kabuki….now THAT was funny!

  • 1969

    Jerome Bettis is sexy. Now back to KRS-One…..I wear my hair like this, got no time for Jheri curls……..

  • http://maimaimommy.blogspot.com/ tjeanise

    you like what you like, and you go with what looks good for you…people get caught up in their own self worth and think other people should conform to what they believe in
    Let your orginality be YOUR originality…

    AMEN!

    But ah on that Jerome Bettis tip-ANYDAY-that’s all I got to say on that.

  • http://lavendersquirts.blogspot.com DivineLavender

    We all got preferences….and I love a thick man. I love the old football player with the same build but minus all the muscles and a few years of age on him. I would love to see the average/thick/large man on magazines, selling records, starring in movies, posters, etc. Clearly, I am not an editor of a magazine or producer.

    I just wonder how can you ever ask/request something you can’t offer.

    Moving on….my slim man now handles it…all of me.

    Preferences ain’t got shit to do with the realness…We all got fantasies. Who has the real thing?

  • http://www.ibeenherebefore.blogspot.com JaySpice

    Jerome Bettis is that dude. I love him. He is exremly sexy. I personally like thick guys. Thick, not fat. I don’t have any problem with guys not attracted to thicker women. It’s you dingaling and you stick wherever you please.

  • http://trlanna.wordpress.com/2007/06/ Shanna4

    Male Pot Belly models! Wow. If dove can have those “natural” lookin women commercials then I guess there can be room for some realistic everyday men advertisements. Seems like this world is sooo artificial…..Skinny is what’s up…skinny sizes is what’s plentiful in the stores…small shoes sizes are the majority…Hell, I come from a tall family with big feet. Though I wear a size nine shoes, my mother and sister both wear a size 11. The only time I heard someone major in Hollywood had big feet is when I read somewhere Paris Hilton wears a large shoe size. If one was to actually try and become everything society is screaming what is hot right now, they’d have to be made totally of plastic. (Though there are people actully getting close to that….)

    I wasn’t feeling Diary of a Mad black Woman either…I understand the concept of black women overcoming a horrible relationships, but it was just not that cool to me …….like Shemar Moore’s braids in the movie!!LOL!

  • Sakeenah

    “You’ll find Women in the Magazines and TV that’s MAD skinny…or REAL thick
    …stretch marks…little belly…lotta ass, etc. etc.”
    I don’t enjoy looking at fashion as much because the girls are so unattractively skinny to me. They don’t fill out the clothes, the clothes droop & it doesn’t make me want to buy them at all. Show me how the garment looks on a real woman then I can get a better sense of how it will look on me. I find bodies like Khrysti Hill’s, Deelishus’, and Cherokee D’Ass most appealing. They have thickness and slimness in the right places. That’s just because I’m black!

    “Why does a woman that decides NOT to get a relaxer look at a woman with long permed hair some kinda way?”
    Because deep down we still see straight hair as the ideal. No amount of dashiki wearing, brass ankhs, African history degrees, Kwanzaa celebrations can change this until we decide to deprogram the brainwashing. It’s a global thing, even in Africa they’re jealous of you if your hair is permed. When I was rocking dreds I sometimes got looks of pity, like they thought I must’ve been sad because my hair was nappy. Obviously I had low self-esteem because only straight haired chicks get play. In actuality, my dreds cut out a lot of bull. Only the real dudes stepped to me. The players did me a favor by not wasting my time. My dreds were super thick and lush, a look unachievable with permed hair. So, no I was not looking at permed haired girls some kind of way. I really didn’t care less, I was loving my wake up & go hair. They were the ones wishing they had the confidence to go natural and feeling self-conscious about not accepting themselves

    “people get caught up in their own self worth and think other people should conform to what they believe in”
    Yeah, this really bugs me. People have always tried to control me, that’s when I become even more defiant & outrageous. I used to wear a Chaka Khan wig and blue metallic heels to my law firm job. Management didn’t say a word, not even when I wore goat fur boots. People are insecure, they need constant reassurance. I’ve always been fiercely independent and unique, people look to me for guidance. I catch girls checking my outfits & taking syle notes. They rarely see originality in the hood, it seems

  • http://thebrownspoon.blogspot.com Roddykat

    But How you gon be on the “Yeah I wear my hair ‘natural’ cuz fuck that…no chemicals for me…that’s not how out hair was meant to be
    – yeah, that DAMN shampoo and conditioner is messing it up for real. 🙂

  • Arianna

    You’ll find Women in the Magazines and TV that’s MAD skinny…or REAL thick
    …stretch marks…little belly…lotta ass.: Thank goodness for those pics of “thick” women…its about damn time ppl like Deelish’s body gets some exposure. My body is closer to hers than those”skinny bitches”(yes I said it)…and it does make me feel better about myself. This year like 10 young girls died trying to starve themselves to become models. Fuck that, that shit needs to stop. Also, there definetly should be some thick brothas up in magazines…I find ’em extremely sexy! (Minus the pot belly!) 🙂

    “Why does a woman that decides NOT to get a relaxer look at a woman with long permed hair some kinda way?”: Yeah, thats fucked! Women always hate. She clearly isnt happy with herself if she stares you down and judges you…bitch stop, stop the jealousy, its really uncute! Just fix whatever needs to be fixed, you’re just lazy!

    “Bwahahaha…lookin like Black kabuki”: LMFAO…

  • beautifulgyrlJ

    What male model doesn’t have a flat stomach or washboard Abs?
    – I could care less with a man and a 6 pack… That’s kinda irrelevant in my long list of wants. As long as he treats me good and he’s not obese I can work with it. Shiddd I have imperfections according to the media. But, NO man has complained. I love my body for the most part and MEN definitely do.

    What THICK male dude on TV or Magazines you see?
    -None but Ahh I want me some Jada Kiss he could get it

    …lookin like Black kabuki..
    -LOL silly

  • lovnlife

    ….NOT because he wants her to not have to work…dont flatter yourself, you’re not his “Queen”
    Damn, e! For real?! LOL

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